Someone new has just started in my office. We are going to be working closely together. He is really lovely, but he has very bad BO. The other day I had to shift away from him during a meeting because the smell was making me gag. I’m worried if I tell him it will make things awkward and I don’t want to upset him. Do I talk to him or try to sit as far from him as possible?
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